How to Show Your Boyfriend That He’s Putting In The Work

If your boyfriend doesn’t have a great wardrobe, you could always help him out. But it’s important to know that he should have the option to refuse your assistance. No one wants to feel like they’re being pressured into looking a certain way, and even if he doesn’t have the best taste, there are ways you can make him feel like he’s doing a good job with his style.

If he’s open to it, ask him if he would be comfortable with you doing some personal shopping for him. Depending on how much of an effort you put into it, he might find the ego boost he needs to start taking more pride in his appearance. He might even be inspired to start his own curated style. However, it’s also a good idea to give him some dapper staple pieces that are designed for men and will allow him to feel stylish without feeling too masculine.

For example, this shirt from Threadbare is designed to have a relaxed fit that gives it an untucked look while still giving it a sharp silhouette. It’s made with cotton and silk and has a subtle sheen, which is perfect for pairing with jeans.

Another great option is this suit jacket from Tropicfeel, which is made with a lightweight nylon blend that’s 3x softer than cotton and moisture-wicking. It comes with a removable, adjustable sleeveless lining that makes it easy to switch out the lining and create a layered look in warmer weather.

You might also try getting him a pair of sleek sunglasses that will keep him looking cool and confident. These Walker sunglasses from Selfmade are crafted with anti-reflective lenses and a gunmetal top bar for durability. They’re also available in a rich navy color and have Teflon-coated hinges for scratch resistance.

A new belt is a simple but practical gift, and this leather strap from Collars & Co. has hand-stitching, a glimmering nickel buckle, and full-grain leather that’s durable and long-lasting.

Another great accessory is a shoe cleaning kit, which can be used to give old sneakers new life. This Shoe MGK kit contains a cleaner, a protector, and a shoe freshener that are all biodegradable.

Kelsey Stewart is a fashion writer covering trends, celebrity style, and new products on the market (yes, she loves denim). Her work has appeared in The New York Times, The Cut, and GQ. She’s a fan of the minimalist style, and she believes that it’s possible to have a pared-back, effortless look while still being fashionable and chic. For more of her musings, follow her on Twitter.