The bad boy aesthetic isn’t just about slapping on some black leather and rocking a Harley Davidson tee — it’s an attitude of confidence and sultry sex that radiates from your entire being. That said, achieving that bad-ass vibe isn’t easy. Think smart sartorial choices and a wardrobe that bucks trends to evoke the right feel. The anti-fit aesthetic is a good place to start, channeling Franz Rogowski in Passages or the unisex jiu jitsu athlete Rickson Gracie.
Vintage soft boy is another option, a look reminiscent of the likes of Paul Newman in Cry-Baby or your favorite Hollywood gay hunk, Montgomery Clift. The key to this look is keeping things simple. A stack of white shirts and stiff outerwear can scream “old money,” while a pair of tailored dress pants, high-waisted loafers, and a leather jacket can give you that big dick top energy. Add a few accessories to complete the look, and you’ll be ready for your next Grindr date. Just remember to keep that lip color locked tight. And don’t forget to brush up on your smolder.